Practicing the Way
John Mark Comer
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Who are you following?
There are no free thinkers
The world is forming us continuously …into what?
Even on days of doubt, I want to believe. I resonate with Peter’s conclusion
Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.
Apprentice to Jesus
Dramatisation of Peter’s calling by Jesus. Conclusion: bizarre, what on earth made him do that?
Rabbi as guru, each with a yoke (Hebrew idiom for briefs and practices).
No formal authority: your life and teaching were your credentials.
Three goals of an apprentice
bet sefer - the house of the book
bet midrash - the house of learning
apprenticeship to rabbi
be with rabbi 24x7
become like your rabbi
do as your rabbi did
go and make disciples of your own
Very few graduate from each stage.
disciple is a noun not a verb
are you a Christian or an apprentice
'Lincoln’s Christianity' by Michael burkhimer defines Christianity as creed-like beliefs in and about Jesus but not about following our obeying him. P14ff.
Statistic of 63% Christians in USA Vs 4% followers of Christ.
Compared to the crowds in gospel accounts contrasted with disciples.
but what are we saved to?
Only 10% of millennial kids from evangelical churches remain practising disciples.
The 'bait and switch' of Jesus loves you before conversion to pick up your cross after.
There is no guarantee that a Christian non disciple can go to heaven.
Sin (hamartia in Greek) means to miss the mark. But what mark? p20
For Jesus, salvation is less about getting you into heaven and now about getting heaven into you p21
"It’s not about what you do; it’s about what Jesus has done for you" is not a description of the gospel by any new testament writers. P23
a way of life
whoever means whoever
goal 1: be with Jesus
Not a 3 step programme but there is a sequence.
Abide in me
I will ask the father and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever.
Allos (the same) parakletos (helper or intercessor)
Not vague and ethereal but a person.
God is Trinity, self giving relationship.
All are abiding but in what?
What do you return to in quiet moments. How about if you make your home inside God?
Brother Lawrence the practice of the presence of God - but not a technique but a skill - needs practice.
turning God into a habit
Most of us in quiet moments don’t turn to Jesus . "The undirected mind turns towards chaos", mihaly csikszentmihali calls it psychic entropy.
But trainable.
Needs habit.
But becomes easier
I look at him, he looks at me, and we are happy.
Marjorie j Thompson soul feast: an invitation to the Christian spiritual life . Louisville: Westminster John Knox. 2014.
Ignatius: sitting in the quiet and letting God love them. A foretaste of eternity.
We all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever increasing glory. 2 cor 3:18
The need for attention in a World of attention robbers.
the reward for following Jesus is Jesus
Prayer—of any kind—well always remain a chore… Until we come to realise that Jesus is our exceedingly great reward.
If it doesn’t feel like that keeps showing up. Stick at it.
Find your secret place
Jesus got up early and went to a solitary place to prayer. And went to Gethsemane in the evening as was his habit.
A rhythm of retreat and return.
Tragedy when extroverts never experience this and tragedy too when introverts indulge themselves in it.
you must ruthlessly eliminate hurry
To apprentice to Jesus is to do less not more.
Simplify not 'habit stacking'. James Clear atomic habits.
Most people are just too busy to live emotionally healthy and spiritually vibrant lives. P61
The need to stay with a formation audit and cut out now y than we add in. P62
Questions
How does Jesus explain the relationship between him, the Holy Spirit, and the Father?
Why is the question 'What are you abiding in?' more important than 'Are you abiding?'?
Question: What is the implication of being rooted in positive sources versus negative ones?
What is the significance of Brother Lawrence’s experience in his kitchen?
What is the importance of habit. What habits do you find useful?
goal 2: become like him
Day by day remind yourself that you are going to die. P66, quoting the rule of St Benedict
New York times columnist David brooks famously distinguished between resume virtues and eulogy virtues… Remind yourself to live for your eulogy, not your resume. P68
80 year olds have formed their characters and either become generous or mean. P71ff Or is it that the mask is starting to drop? But more fixed in opinions certainly.
formation defined
the process
Formation in the image of Jesus is a long slow process, not a one time event.
Losing sight of that risks discouragement or settling for mediocrity.
Maxim from Pete scazzero: best decade 70s, second 80s, third 60s. Best is greatest help to others.
of being formed
Our job is mostly to make ourselves available [to God]
into people of love
Would the people you know you best say you are becoming more loving, joyful, and at peace. More patient and less frustrated? Kinder, gentler, softening with time and owned with goodness? Faithful, especially in hard times and self controlled? P77
The focus of becoming a people of love is other people, otherwise just 'a Christianised version of radical individualism'.
in Christ
The doctrine of incorporation.
No accidental saints
It’s not going to just magically happen. In fact inertia likely takes you the other way.
Go to church, read the Bible and pray, give. Thirty years of this often just makes you feel older.
The critical journey
Recognition of God
Life of discipleship
Productive life
--- the wall ---
Journey inward
Journey outward
Life of love
The problem is not knowing how to change.
three losing strategies
willpower
Insufficient for any hints of heavy lifting. Starting the day with a psalm might be within scope of willpower.
more Bible study
at best, wildly insufficient P86
Essential but not transformative. The problem is not needing more information.
zap from heaven
problem 1: sin
Must face our sin. It’s an addictive loop of self destruction.
sin done by us
sin done to us
Hurt people hurt people. true, but inevitably over compensation for previous neglect
sin done around us
Secondary effects of living in a broken world. Hard to do good
untitled
all three are important, Protestant emphasis on sin by us: guilt//innocence theory of atonement. theories of atonement, footnote 37 sin is more than breaking judicial laws, a disease of the soul, salvation the healing of whole person.
Repentance not just pleading in court of law but opening your wound to a doctor. Jesus is doctor of the soul. Greek sōzō usually translated saved actually means healed.
Healing requires facing the issue. But: "the human capacity for self deception is staggering" p96
problem 2: You’ve already been formed
Even ignoring that, imagine I’m not sick… We’ve already been formed by 3 basic forces.
#1 the stories we believe
a popular example: suppose I believe the more money I have the happier I’ll be. It makes me: "driven, greedy, envious, discontent, distracted from God, never satisfied, and maybe even dishonest and cruel".
Jesus said all good things are gifts from God and money makes it harder not easier to enter the kingdom.
#2 our habits
Synopsis of Charles duhigg: "we are little more than the cumulative effects of our habits." This is morally neutral. But undeniable.
#3 our relationships
"Jesus may be in your heart, but grandpa is in your bones" therefore all Christian formation is counter formation.
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will.
We can—and must—push back. But how?
a working theory of change
not 'True' but perhaps helpful. 'it works', a reliable path to transformation.
diag: intentional spiritual formation (counter-formation)
1. teaching
Jesus came as teacher of truth. Imagination is the greatest strength—and weakness—of people. Devil approached Eve not with stick but idea.
Tozer: first idea that comes into our head when we think of God it’s the most important than about us. We become our idea of God.
We must counter that with truth.
2. Practices
Sermon on the Mount: theologians long sought to explain it away. Actually although a high standard, Jesus realistic about it sins and that The Way takes practice.
Bookended (almost)
but whoever practises and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
> [24] ‘Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. — Matthew 7:24 NIVUK
Comparison to marathon training: add a mile to your 'long run' each week.
Not just Pelagian self-effort but learning how to rely on God and draw on his energy [still sound like us doing the doing though that is not his point].
Emulating Jesus' spiritual disciplines.
Yet living without worry is like running a marathon is impossible.
Without practice.
3. Community
long term inter-personal relationships are the crucible of genuine progress in the Christian life.
it’s not easy but it’s worth it—a glimpse of eternity.
4. the Holy Spirit
we must play our part but not a 50:50 partnership-- He does all the heavy lifting.
5. Over time
A long time (duration) but also a lot of time (commitment).
'A black belt is just a white belt who never quit'.
6. through suffering
None of us wants to hear it but the hardest times are our crucibles where change happens (cf James 1:2-4).
terrible wonderful news: you are not in control
digital has lots of benefits but three disastrous effects on our formation: we expect life to be
easy
fast
controllable
the exact opposite of Jesus' formation.
French philosopher Jacques Ellul compared Western obsession with 'technique' to medieval magic. Trying to control what we cannot.
opens another risk: allow formation to become another means of control rather than opening ourselves to grace.
goal 3: do as He did
Even today upon ordination rabbis are commissioned to raise up many disciples, a liturgy that dates to Jesus' time.
Fishers of men was an established honorific for great rabbis, says Comer.
Comer observed that all Jesus did in Luke his disciples do in acts. The natural consequence of their discipling.
Teaching theory: I do, you watch; I do, you help; you do, I help, you do, I watch
That’s how Jesus did it, that’s how comer suggests we do it too.
With an important twist: or context is very different so the same principles need translation.
Jesus the prototype
But Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep.
'Some scholars' suggest prototype is a good translation of the agrarian 'first fruit' to modern industrial society.
Don’t consider miracles proofs Jesus was God since his disciples do them too.
So where did Jesus (and the disciples) get their power? the Holy Spirit. Luke is clearest about this.
Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.
Jesus is looking for disciples on whom to confer this power today, says Comer.
rhythm 1. Making space for the gospel (hospitality)
Societal antipathy our even antagonism towards Christianity can be focused by eating together.
Luke 19: apprenticing Zacchaeus (unredeemable to many eyes).
Jesus got himself crucified by the way he ate.
Luke: artist and theologian, 2008
Over 50 references to fix in Luke.
Purpose: the son of man came to seek and save the lost.
Method: the son of man came eating and drinking.
In greek philoxenia (foreigner loving), translated hospitality.
You’re doing it anyway and everyone can do it. Just requires intent and a little planning.
Rhythm 2: preaching the gospel
In our generation, the primary problem with evangelism isn’t that were doing it with bullhorns and low-grace bigotry; it’s that we aren’t doing it at all.
p135
Stark survey of millennial Christians with witnessing to and conversion of people supported by mid 90% but almost half say it’s wrong to proselytise. Pressure to keep Christian faith private, whilst all manner of other faiths are evangelised daily: nationalism, cold-water therapy, intermittent fasting [anti immigrants, anti tax, happiness thru wealth].
Nothing fancy, just telling people about Jesus and his offer of eternal life.
But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,
Acknowledges our rejection of 'manipulative and at times mean-spirited … preaching… many of us have lost our sense of witness entirely.' p137
Loneliness increasingly common, met it with the evangelism Jesus used.
1. offer hospitality
2. find where Jesus is already working
3. bear witness
not 'closing the desk' just tell own story. Done will be attracted whilst others repulsed --at the same time.
4. do the stuff
John Wimbers phrase for the prophetic.
5. live a beautiful life
Greek kalos beautiful, lovely, shapely.
Dallas Willard: fullness of life
these are attractive qualities, but also suffer something of social death (comer says shame).
finally, if you want more of God, give him away [a tactic for keeping him in the forefront of our minds].
Rhythm 3: demonstrating the gospel
Jesus did not just preach the gospel; he embodied it
Jürgen Moltmann argued better to see miracles as healing the natural order than intruding into it (as some post-enlightenment theologians have been tempted to do).
Four things Jesus and disciples frequently did.
1. healing
Jesus quickly became known for his miracles.
Peter’s shadow passing over the sick brought healing, Acts 5:15
Others healed by touching Paul’s clothes Acts 19:11-12
"The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective." James 5:16 NIVUK
2. deliverance
The hardest thing for Western secular society to accept. Weirdly, he attributes to Luke:
8 The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.
Interesting aside that Globalisation is increasing the influence of more spiritual South and decreasing secularism.
But in any case, Comer is due demonic forces are real and cites deliverance of God wife from four generation curse.
3. prophecy
Again here the same humanly impossible insights Jesus had (John 4:18, John 9:3) are expected to be manifested in early church by Paul (1 Corinthians 12-14).
Comer cautions the need for practice but "once prophecy becomes a part of your life, there’s no going back." p147.
4. justice
A word sadly caught up in culture wars. No less central to the heart of God for that.
If this sounds impossible, remember the only way to do anything is "in the power of the holy spirit". Every day is full of potential miracles. As you go about ordinary life seek to emulate Jesus' "I only do what I see the father doing." (Comer’s paraphrase of John 5:19).
"The joyous burdens of love"
This may sound a bit overwhelming.
Comer quotes St Theresa of Avila:
Christ has no body on earth but yours. yours are the eyes with which he looks compassionately on this world. yours are the feet with which he walks to do good. yours are the hands with which he blesses all the world. Christ has no body on earth but yours
"Christ has no body on earth but yours", National Catholic Reporter Jan, 21 2020.
"The Lord has assigned to each his task" [1 Corinthians 3:5]
What is yours?
Quoting Tony Evans, "You have not really lived until you have found your God-given ministry." Otherwise just marking time.
By doing your job with skill, integrity, humility, doing it well.
"Work is love made visible" — Khalil Gibran.
Secondarily, good works. More sporadic.
Is there an area you feel the Spirit of God stirring in your heart?
That is likely your "joyous burden of love".
Goals 1 & 2 may be largely inward, goal 3 is unmistakably outward. A tension, but a healthy one, "both-and".
How? A rule of life
Example of wanting to visit Japan. That’s the vision, but also need a plan.
True of many aspects of life (budget, schedule, career, fitness etc), true too of desire to be with Jesus.
A plan for our spiritual lives, we don’t plan this, God is in charge and we must allow him to take the reins.
We must arrange it daily routines so we are deeply enjoying everyday life with God.
The trellis and the vine
Latin regula, literally "straight piece of wood", may originate in the training stake applied to a vine — the trellis.
A rule, or way, of life is ancient language for a set of practices, committments and rhythms.
You already have a rule of life
Maybe subconscious, maybe not. Maybe working for you, maybe against.
Comer recommends an honest stock taking. "Your system is perfectly designed to give you the results you are getting." But are they the results you want?
Examples:
checking social media on waking is a choice to be more like those you follow.
reading more news than Bible is a choice to be shaped by your favourite commentators.
buying another thing is a choice to feed the appetite for consumption.
Guarding and guiding
A rule of life "guards our habits and guides our lives", Andy Crouch.
Some are dos: daily reading of scripture, weekly Sabbath and community meal, monthly day of solitude. Some are don’ts: phone in drawer from 8.30pm till after quiet time, 1 day social media, 4h video per week.
Comer notes the don’ts do feel like rules but not out of legalism but recognition of immaturity needing guard rails.
Choose your constraints or they will be chosen for you. Choosing what not to so you have time for what you do. Choose carefully.
Four things a good rule will do for you
1. it will help you turn vision into reality
Most of us desire for but fail because we avoid, procrastinate, make excuses. John Ortega’s comparison of golf to following Jesus. The idea is easy, the practice is hard.
2. it will help you experience peace as you live in alignment with your deepest desires
We achieve inner peace when our values align with our schedules
"Because our schedules are so often not aligned… [we] live with this electric current of anxiety pulsing through our nervous systems all the time." — p170
Warnings about addictive nature of digital and that resistance forces us to confront what we actually desire. A tip to look at what makes us jealous of other people.
3. It will help you live at the right pace
Too much saps our souls. Too little makes us self centered and atrophying.
4. It will help you balance freedom and discipline
Each of us tends to one of these poles.
Rule Vs Law: Law is externally handed down and inflexible, guilty if broken, innocent if kept. Rule is self-generated, flexibility, consequences for breaking it but not so serious. Comer gives his daily, weekly, monthly rule for communication with his wife as an example.
The practices defined
1. they are a barometer of spiritual maturity
Disciplines are a path not a destination.
Love is the metric to pay attention to.
2. They are not a gloomy bore
Sleep, feasting, gratitude, celebration, worship.
Richard Foster: joy is the keynote of the disciplines.
3. They are not a form of merit
Not a step back towards legalism but a message of growing into grace.
4. They are not the Christian version of virtue signalling
"truly they have received their reward in full" said Jesus of those giving, praying, fasting publicly and ostentatiously, Matthew 6.
5. They are not a means of control
"We can easily be delivered into thinking of the practices as something we do to get the results in it emotional and spiritual lives" (p177) And thus avoid pain. There is no avoiding pain.
"A discipline is a way to access power. "A spiritual discipline is a way to not just access your own power… but also God’s power." (p178).
A cooperative working with God.
"Acts of loving obedience by which we offer or brokeness and bondage to good for healing and liberation" — Dr Robert Mulholland.
Transformation is possible, if we’re willing to arrange ourselves around the rhythms and truths Jesus did.
The nine
1. Sabbath
Sleep, margin, time off, rest. Over-tired, overworked people are not loving.
Tiredness is unavoidable in this life but ment of us push it to dangerous levels when we can’t hear God’s voice.
1/7th of the week. Rest but also joy in and worship of God who made us for companionship.
2. solitude
Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.
The spiritual life: 8 essential titles by Henri Nouwen
Once we are rested, the quiet is where we go to find God.
3. Prayer
Comer identifies 4 kinds:
talking to God: premade prayers like psalms, liturgy, songs
talking with God: lifting up aspects of life: gratitude, lament, petition, intercession.
listening to God: lectio divina, prophetic.
being with God: "looking at God, looking at you in love".
The non-negotiable bit of prayer: show up and show up regularly.
4. Fasting
Offering all your body to God in worship.
Amplifying ability to hear and be heard.
'Hangry' feelings expose areas we need grace, especially to start with.
5. Scripture
Teaches us to see the world as God sees it.
Many ways to read, but no particular tips.
6. community
We generally sin alone, but we heal together.
Church is reparenting ourselves into god’s family. Scary as it often goes wrong, but nonetheless true.
Do you have your travelling companions?
7. Generosity
Living under your means opens possibilities.
Participating in the divine outflow of love. Sociologists now agree: "it’s happier to give than receive." — Acts 20:34b
8. Service
How can we ever fix society’s ills?
We serve. pp
It not only mends our fractured world, it mends us.
Dignity is restored by both serving, both receiving.
9. witness
Matt 28… go into all the earth…
Called not to convert but to preach… if necessary with words.
A few tips
1. Start where you are, not where you "should" be
In our zeal, it’s hard not to overreach and attempt to live like a monk from day one.
p191
Leads to discouragement and disillusionment.
Requires honesty. Then let that be enough.
Dare to ask, "How do I enjoy God".
2. Think subtraction, not addition
Build in a margin.
Some separate into practices of engagement and abstinence. Engagement mat be necessary to break lethargy or laziness. But, Comer implies, that’s probably not the prevailing problem in our times.
Diagram: Jesus' practices on 2 axes Alone—Community and Engagement—Abstinence.
Clockwise from bottom left:
Bible reading, prayer, secrecy
Silence and solitude, fasting, simple living
Sabath, generosity
Justice, lord’s supper, weekly meal in community, church
Each of us likely favours one quadrant, but strive for balance.
4. Take into account your personality and spiritual temperament
Gary Thomas' book Sacred Pathways identified nine spiritual temperaments:
Naturalists
Sensates
Traditionalists
Ascetics
Activists
Caregivers
Enthusiasts
Contemplatives
No hierarchy!
5. Take into account your season of life and state of discipline
children can be like monastic bells to remind you that your time is not your own. p195
Don’t fight your season, work with it.
6. Keep a healthy blend of upstream and downstream practices
As in upstream disciplines feel like swimming upstream, not our natural preference.
In general, sins of commission require practices of abstinence. And vice versa.
But as in many places, balance of both—and is required.
7. Follow the J curve
Learning theories suggest we often get worse before getting better.
For example, practicing Sabbath may have some attractions but also be associated with restlessness. Distractions like 'Am I doing it wrong?' or 'Do I enjoy it?' may interrupt.
8. Do this in community
Individual is fine but traditionally these were shared rules to hold community together.
Probably both harder and slower, but ultimately stronger.
Start with a small group. Shared practices but room to develop individual ones too.
9. There is no formation without repetition
micro rituals have macro significance
GK Chesterton quote about "Do it again", a thrill to a child but a bore to an adult. "Perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony… [perhaps] our father is younger than we."
Find your inner monk
…
Take up your cross
Do you want to follow Jesus?
Look at the gospels: many wanted to see miracles, few stayed. Genuine attraction but unwilling to commit.
Jesus invited but let the unwilling walk away.
Surrender
Why did people decline the invitation? Common denominator is the high bar of entry.
Peter gave up his fishing business, what am I called to give up?
The blood of the martyrs is the seed of the church
2nd century
For most of us in the West, the cross isn’t literal. p211
A definition of discipleship: lifelong process of deepening surrender to Jesus. — Kevin Jenkins, practicing the way and world vision
A less popular definition is: obey. Obedience is the nature of discipleship.
Obedience is an act of will [consent] not achievement (Thomas Keating).
Foolishness, even dangerous and certainly a tough sell in our culture of stuff-actualisation. So we find ourselves in cross currents.
The cost of (non-)discipleship
Following costs a lot. Not following costs more.
Life is hard with or without God. But trying to save yourself of living in a meaningless universe is hardest.
Apprenticeship to Jesus: giving up all you are too receive all God is.
The parables of treasure and pearl (Mat 13:44ff) are not virtue but basic arithmetic. To not die and grow is to remain a seed.
Begin again
We will fail, daily, even hourly to start. That’s human.
Be ready to begin again. Something that’s possible at any moment.
It’s also an endless journey. Gregory of Nyssa saw perfection not as a fixed state like in Greek philosophy but a endless (limitless) growth.
Conclusion
daily visualise the attractiveness of life in the Kingdom.
take one small step immediately: the’next right thing'.
take it slow
when we fall, begin again.